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#TuesdayBookBlog Secrets in the Babby House by Gloria McBreen (@GloriaMcB) #RBRT

Hi all:

I have been lucky to catch up on some amazing reads from Rosie’s Book Review Team recently, and this is another one of them. And what a beautiful cover as well.

Secrets in the Babby House by Gloria McBreen

Secrets in the Babby House by Gloria McBreen

Flossie Lynch is heartbroken when her only love, Frank Connolly, marries another. So when John O’Malley—the well-off catch of the parish—proposes to her, she resigns herself to a marriage of convenience, hoping to learn to love him.
For John, Flossie is mostly a respectable wife and caring mother to their son—and the perfect façade for his dark secret. But bloody Frank Connolly and his blackmailing wife are making things difficult for him.
Another victim of his jealous wife’s abusive behaviour, Frank stays in his loveless marriage for the sake of his two wee girls. He turns his childhood fort into a babby house to give them a refuge from their cruel mother. But for Frank, there is no refuge.
When Flossie rekindles her friendship with Frank, she tries desperately to save him from a life of misery and promises to always look out for his daughters. As the two star-crossed lovers near a second chance, tragedy strikes, forcing Flossie to make good on her promise—while attempting to protect her husband and son.
But as long as there’s a Connolly with a score to settle, there is no escape from the past and no promises for the future.

Set in a gossipy small town in Ireland at a time when marriage is for keeps and sexuality is repressed, Secrets in the Babby House is a family saga over three decades that starts in 1956. It is a story of love, deception, and stolen diaries filled with sins and secrets.

About the author:

Gloria McBreen is originally from Bailieborough in Co Cavan. She currently resides in Ballina, Co Mayo. She enjoys writing fiction set in historical times. Her inspiration for Secrets in the Babby House came from the love of her childhood memories and her enjoyment of listening to tales of times gone by.

https://gloriawriteshere.wordpress.com/

My review:

I write this review as a member of Rosie’s Book Review Team (author, check here if you are interested in getting your book reviewed) and thank her and the author for this opportunity.

This is Gloria McBreen’s writing debut; it is a historical novel set over three decades in small-town Ireland (from the 1950s onward), and it has a fairly timeless feel, which will remind readers of classical family sagas they have read or watched in the past.

As would be expected in this genre, there are plenty of secrets, gossip, prejudice, impossible romances, rumours, and interference, and also some tragedies, violence, betrayals, suspicions, good intentions, bad blood, revenge, trauma, blackmail, and even murder. Although on the surface everything seems to be calm and ordered, there is a dark undercurrent running deep, and even though most characters are neither all good nor terribly evil, there are a couple whose behaviour can be quite chilling, especially considering the age of one of them. (I can’t give more details because I want to avoid spoilers, but if you read the novel, you’ll know who I am referring to).

One of the strengths of this novel is the way it captures the atmosphere of the time and place, a society stepped on traditional roles and values, where one’s reputation takes precedence over one’s true wishes and happiness, and where people’s behaviours are conditioned by social status and by the expectations of family, friends, and neighbours. Being true to oneself is almost impossible, and those who try, have to pay a big price for it. The author manages to recreate the era and the feel of the period without resorting to lengthy descriptions of places, clothes, and people. The story is written in the third person, mostly from the point of view of Flossie Lynch (who becomes a teacher and one of the most important characters in the novel), but we also get to share in the thoughts and feelings of some of the other characters, and that makes it easy to visualise the action and to gain a better understanding of who these people are, and how they are seen by others. Many of them have hidden depths they don’t share with anybody (or, in Flossie’s case, only with her diaries), and witnessing their stories from their perspectives helps us understand them better, and feel more involved in the events. We might never have spent any time in a place like Bailieborough but we gain a good understanding of what it might have been like for those who lived there and in similar places at that time.

The writing style is easy to follow, with the events told in chronological order, and the odd Irish word and expression peppered here and there, giving the dialogue and the story a feel of authenticity. Although I wasn’t familiar with all the words, expressions, and local references, that didn’t prevent me from following and fully understanding the story, although perhaps a glossary of terms might enhance the enjoyment for readers who appreciate a local and vernacular touch.

The description of the book gives a good summary of the events and also some of the characters we meet. We get to follow some of them for many years, and although we might not agree with what they do, it is not difficult to understand some of their behaviours, given the circumstances. Flossie is well-intentioned and tries to do the right thing for herself and others, although she never gets over her love for Frank. Frank is an extremely likeable character, and he shines in particular in his interaction with his daughters, who don’t get much love from their mother, Alice. Alice is not easy to empathise with, although there are hints of a difficult childhood that might explain some of the things she does. John, on the other hand, finds himself trapped by a combination of convention and interest and ends up living a lie, but he never gives up trying to make his family happy (whilst keeping up appearances as well). Some of the older generations play a less important part in the story, but their influences and their ideas maintain their hold over the proceedings, at least for a time. Of course, it is not difficult to imagine that they have experienced and lived through similar events to those narrated in the novel themselves, and they are also constrained by their circumstances. The younger protagonists, Bennie, and especially the girls, Rose and Nancy (and later, their cousin Maureen also) live under the weight of past secrets and lies they know nothing about, although there are clear signs by the end of the novel that the younger generations are taking things in their own hands and taking control over their own destinies. I admit my fascination with Nancy’s character, and I think she is one of the most complex creations of the novel and one that will remain in my mind for a long time.

I enjoyed the pace of the novel, in particular, the opportunity to follow the characters for a long period of time and to see how their stories and personalities developed, without having to rush from one action scene to the next. There are plenty of experiences the characters live through; it is impossible not to care for them and their futures, and this makes this book gripping and attention-grabbing, even if the events and the incidents that take place are not in the grand scale of some of the blockbusters we are used to. We might have heard similar stories told by relatives and friends, and that gives the book a human scale that I found particularly welcoming in a world where everything has to be bigger, noisier, and more thrilling all the time. A story about people very much like us that doesn’t require much in the way of suspension of disbelief, well told, with credible and interesting characters, and with an ending that is satisfying whilst leaving some things open to the imagination of the readers. It is a welcomed break from the louder, brighter, and busier fiction which tends to dominate much of the commercial fiction published these days.

Recommended to those who enjoy recent historical fiction, and family sagas with a small-town (Irish) setting, and love the opportunity to experience the workings of the society of the time, and a cast of complex characters and stories full of secrets and complications. I hope the author will keep writing and publishing books, and I will be eagerly waiting for her next story.

Thanks to the author, Rosie for her tireless work keeping the group going, members of the team for the support, and thanks to all of you for coming back every week to check my reviews, share them, and comment. Never stop smiling! You are the best!

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The Scary Guy

My Meeting with The Scary Guy (Hay-on-Wye 3rd July 2014). Part 1.

Most of you will probably think I’m talking metaphorically here, and The Scary Guy is some spiritual thing I’m going through, a fear I have that I decided to confront,  I don’t know, writers’ block, therapy…But no, I’m not talking metaphorically. The Scary Guy is a real guy. I met him here in Hay-on-Wye. We were introduced by Anne, co-owner of Addyman Books, in the second week of my stay in Hay-on-Wye (at Tomatitos, the renowned Tapas Bar) and after having a general chat, Anne lent me his book and he gave me his card. As soon as I got home I checked his website as I was intrigued by the conversation and the work he had been telling us about. I was impressed by his ability to touch so many people and to make his message reach such wide variety of public, from school children to army personnel. It’s not easy to summarise briefly what he does (and as you see he puts it much better than me during the interview) but if I had to try and give you some idea before you go and explore his website and all the materials available, I’d say he talks to people about how to deal with prejudice, making sure that they understand that the best way to deal with the negative energy thrown at them is not to add their own negative energy. You cannot fight bad energy with more bad energy. The prejudice never is and should never become the problem of the victim of the prejudice. Scary uses his very personal style, his appearance, his personal experiences and his special way of connecting with people to deliver his message of love that appears incongruous at first sight. Defying conventions and challenging expectations is what the Scary Guy is about, and he’s tremendously successful at it.

The Scary Guy
The Scary Guy

We exchanged e-mails and he kindly offered to lend me a copy of the film made about him. I watched the film and I told him I’d like to talk about him in my blog but I was happy to share or post any materials he already had. He offered to do an interview instead. The more I read of the book and the more I thought about the movie the more I knew this would be an interesting conversation, even though I found it difficult to formulate specific questions. With just a few jotted down I went to meet Scary (and Cathryn Woodhall his wife, business partner, collaborator and as much a part of the project as he is). Scary and Cathryn live in a lovely cottage across a beautiful church (St Mary’s Church of England, recently refurbished and looking as good as new).

I must admit to not having much of an order set in my head and any jumping from item to item is up to me not Scary.

I told Scary I was reading the book written about him 7 Days and 7 Nights. An Official Biography of “The Scary Guy” by Mark David Hatwood. He noted that he has not written any books as reading and writing has never been one of his better skills and he learns in other ways. He told me that Cathryn is working on several books about him and what he does, because she’s “smart”. When we talked about the concept of smart he told me the considered himself rather than smart “different”. He talked about meeting young people and how they did not like to be considered “normal” and they didn’t like to be labelled normal. “Normal” has become a concept that does not work for much of the youth these days. He went on to expand and say that everybody is unique and it is improper to try and define somebody with a single word, as there are many variables that contribute to defining who we are: our behaviour, what we learn, how we learn, how we perceive things. Our minds are different and our bodies are different. He observed that there might be people who smoked all their lives and die of old age never having developed cancer, whilst somebody  else might die  young with fewer (on non) exposure. It is not only environmental; it is also down to one’s genes. We talked about research onto the possible effect of Nicotine in brain receptors, and how it is possible to find research stating the negatives of smoking but there are also studies looking at developing medication to act on Nicotine receptors positively. (Scary told me he smokes cigars only, maybe one a day when he is not on tour and he finds it relaxing and enjoys the ritual of it. It reminds him of the ‘old ways’ of human life, where men in the 50’s would go to the barber shop and share stories). Not that I’m encouraging smoking, I’m a doctor after all, although the comments are correct.

We discussed the nature of some of the current health and food research and how there is plenty of emphasis on the negative impact of a variety of things (sugar, fat, etc.). He told me he feels his Mother’s advice was the best, as she always advocated using common sense, and not have too much of one thing all the time to the exclusion of everything else, that the best is balance and not excess (as of course there are well known risks like diabetes, heart disease…from unhealthy diets), as the body needs variety. He showed me a box with chocolates and he told me it had been like that (full) for several weeks, and he might have two or three but would not eat them to excess.

I asked Scary who he looked up to. He told me his mother. He described her as a “closet genius”. Scary told me he didn’t find out how smart she was until she died. He told me he always felt she was different and they had a somewhat disconnected relationship with her when he was an adult. She was intelligent and humble, very private and quiet. She was also ahead of her time, in the way she thought about food, behaviour, religion…

Scary told me that he only discovered after she died that his mother had been interested in Astrology and had become an expert, that nobody knew and they found that she had done astrological charts on a lot of people. He felt he only discovered how his mother really was after her death and maybe he never really knew her before. His mother would never say anything negative about anybody. He noted that, ironically, he was now living just across a church (Church of England) and recalled how his mother would never make any negative comments about any religion. Scary’s mother was born and bred a Baptist. His mother took him and his brother (they were 6 and 5 years old) to the Baptist Church three or four times and never again. “She quit.” When he asked her years later why she had stopped going and taking them she told him that she did not like what they were telling her to do with her kids. He didn’t ask for an explanation at the time but in reflection he thought she referred to the way they did not encourage them to do things or to take responsibility for their behaviour.

St Mary's Church in Hay-on-Wye, still undergoing renovations
St Mary’s Church in Hay-on-Wye, still undergoing renovations

To illustrate his mother’s character Scary told me that when they would go out he would “egg her on”, encourage her to make fun at people or make comments about them (if they were fat, or looked peculiar…) but she would always tell him: “Stop it. Stop being crass.” He never managed to influence her to behave in such a negative way. He never had a chance to ask how she had come to be like that. Scary told me that his challenge was to see if he could do the same, to stop being negative about people. His mother died March 16th 1993, 21 years ago.

I asked him what he found most difficult when trying to change his behaviour. He told me he found quite difficult to stop judging people. He said he finds that kind of behaviour in others too all the time. As an example he told me he had walked into Hay’s chemist, where he knows the people working there quite well and there were two female customers at the counter talking and when they saw him they laugh out loud. Sarah, from the shop, didn’t laugh and said, quite loudly: “That wasn’t me. And it wasn’t any of the others who work here either.” Scary commented to the two female customers who had laughed, how of the 7 billion people in the world at least 6 billion would laugh at him, and the 6 billion who laugh would also be the ones to end up hiring him to get over their stuff! Scary observed that his comment might be initially lost on them!

Scary said that he used to be always quick to judge and make decisions and at the time he would have thought of himself as “good at categorising and stereotyping.” He would put people in neat boxes so he believed he would know how to deal with them and on many occasions he’d be wrong. Now he does not do that and he observed such behaviour might cloud people’s perception and interaction (putting as an example what he might have thought I’d be like based on the information he had about me).

Scary is a man with many tattoos as you will have noticed in his pictures and the story of how his tattoos came to being is well detailed in the book and movie. I wanted to ask him if there was a particular plan or an overall design he had been working towards at the time of his tattoos (although it did not seem that way, at least at the beginning). He told me he enjoys tattoos and that is one of the reasons why in the past he had 3 tattoo parlours, because he didn’t have space left for more tattoos so to carry on enjoying them he decided to tattoo other people. He told me there was no specific design he had worked towards, and he would decide in the moment, depending on what felt good at the time. He told me that due to his problems with reading and writing he did not learn by reading books, and he would mostly learn by observation in an experiential form. He would do whatever felt appropriate in real time at the moment, based on his perception. He gave me as an example a tattoo in his wrist; a barcode. He told me that a long time ago, as long as 20 or 30 years ago, he went to the supermarket and as he was queuing to pay he noted the woman at the till passing a tin over the glass register panel and as she did the register would speak: tin of bins so many cents. He was fascinated and asked her how it did that and she explained that the reader read the code and it could retrieve lots of information. He was fascinated by that idea and designed his bar code tatoo based on a Campbell Soup Tin, but he added the lettering ‘Generic Brand’ in reverse that he could only read if he looked it up to a mirror.

Scary and his LOVE tattoo
Scary and his LOVE tattoo

Scary talked about how fascinated he had been at the time with the possibilities of such a system of codifying information and how he could see microchips being used for all kinds of things, including on humans. This topic got us talking about government controls, IDs, etc. He told me he accepted that the government, any government, would have to have access to certain data and observed that due to the kind of work he did he had had to send his data to the FBI to check that he had no criminal records. He acknowledged the importance of background checks. He said that he is not pro control for control’s sake but there is also the fact that some people are criminal and psychopaths and can cause plenty of harm to others and so having background checks can at least minimise such instances. We briefly discussed the latest controversy about Facebook and their experiments controlling people’s moods and interactions and he observed that it goes to prove, as he believes, that people are mostly reactive to the environment.

Scary and I were talking for quite a while so we decided we’d bring you the interview in several parts. But, if you want to find out more about him, you don’t need to wait until the next installment here. I leave you links so you can explore by yourselves.

Scary’s Website:

www.thescaryguy.com

Join Scary on his Facebook Fan Page

(https://www.facebook.com/thescaryguyfanpage)

Scary’s Biography: 7 Days & 7 Nights

(http://thescaryguy.com/product/7-days-and-7-nights/)

Thank you very much for reading, thank you to Scary and Cathryn for their kindness, and help, and if you’ve enjoyed it,  you know what to do: like, share, comment, and of course CLICK!

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Guest authors. Classics

Guest Classical Author. Jane Austen

Jane Austen, Watercolour and pencil portrait b...
Jane Austen, Watercolour and pencil portrait by her sister Cassandra, 1810 (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Signature of Jane Austen. Taken from her 1817 ...
Signature of Jane Austen. Taken from her 1817 will. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

You know I’ve decided that I should bring some classic authors as guests to my blog, not only because it’s always a pleasure to remind myself of their work (and hopefully those who read my posts) but also because we have the advantage that many of their works are available for free and it always offers us an opportunity to read them again or even get to know some we’re not so familiar with.

Today I decided to visit a great favourite with many people, not only readers but also those who make film adaptations and TV series. Jane Austen. We all have our favourites novels, and also adaptations (I quite like Ang Lee’s Sense and Sensibility movie although on TV Pride and Prejudice with Colin Firth…is still probably my favourite. I also love the novel. Yes, and Mr Darcy).

Brief biography:

Jane Austen was born on the 16th of December 1775. His father was a reverend in Steventon. She was the 6th of seven children and only the second of two daughters and she became quite close to her sister Cassandra (her mother was also called Cassandra). Henry, one of her brothers, would become her agent in later life.

At age of 8 she was sent to boarding school with her sister where she would learn what was felt to be appropriate education for a woman at the time (French, music and dancing…). At home it seems she was always interested in reading and writing and they would make their own plays that the family would perform.

In 1789 she started to write more seriously (Love and Friendship) and a bit later started writing plays. In 1795 she met Tom Lefroy (if you have watched Becoming Jane Austen you’ll remember he’s played in that movie by James MacAvoy) the nephew of a neighbouring family who was in London studying Law. Unfortunately neither of the two families being of means it appears it was felt such union would not be in their interest and he was sent away.

She worked on some stories that later would evolve into her novels. Her father retired when she was 27 and they moved to Bath, a spa town that was the epitome of class and high society (everybody who was anybody would go there to take the waters and to be seen, it seems).

In Bath she received a proposal of marriage by a childhood friend, Harris Brigg-Wither, her only one. She initially said yes, as he was to receive and inheritance who would have secured her and her family’s subsistence, but she thought better of it and the next day she refused.

In 1803 her brother sold Susan to a publisher who promised to publish it but didn’t and there were difficulties with rights afterwards.

Her father died in 1805 leaving the three women in a difficult situation. They moved frequently until her brother Frank offered them a cottage where they moved when she was 33. She dedicated herself to writing there and her brother sold Sense and Sensibility to Thomas Egerton who published it in 1811. It got good reviews and the whole edition was sold by 1813.

The same publisher seeing how well it had done in 1813 published Pride and Prejudice. It was even more successful and he published a second edition. Mansfield Park although less well received by critics was a public success and became the most commercially successful of her works during her lifetime. Jane move on to publisher John Murray who published a new edition of Mansfield Park, Emma, Persuasion, Northanger Abbey. Her brother Henry’s bank failed and Jane made efforts to regain the rights to Susan that was then published as Catherine.

In 1816 her health began to fail but she carried on working. In January 1817 her sister Cassandra and brother Henry took her to Winchester to seek medical help and there she died on July the 18th 1817 leaving some unfinished works. Her brother published her complete works and revealed her real identity.

Links:

http://www.janeausten.org/

You can read all of her works online in the above link apart from finding plenty of information about her.

http://www.janeausten.co.uk/

Information on the Jane Austen centre, activities and even the Jane Austen festival in Bath.

http://www.jane-austens-house-museum.org.uk/

Website of her house museum.

http://www.pemberley.com/

Fan site.

http://www.austen.com/

http://www.bbc.co.uk/history/historic_figures/austen_jane.shtml

BBC history website on Jane Austen

FREE Links to novels:

Title page from the first edition of the first...
Title page from the first edition of the first volume of Pride and Prejudice (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Pride and Prejudice

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008476HBM/

Emma:

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0083Z3O8Y/

Mansfield Park:

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0083Z4RNU/

Persuasion:

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0083Z6AH6/

Northanger Abbey:

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0084B008Y/

Lady Susan:

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0083ZXYB6/

I couldn’t find a copy of Sense and Sensibility  free although they were quite a few under $1 so…(and I suspect one must be hiding somewhere).

Thank you for reading and I hope you’ve enjoyed reading my post. If you have, please comment, share and click!